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What Black History Month Means to Me: Ivory N. Mathews, CEO of Home Forward

February 13, 2025

What does Black History Month mean to you and your family?

Black History Month holds profound significance for me, shaped by the memories of my formative years in a small, close-knit town in rural South Carolina. It transcends being merely a date on the calendar; it’s a cherished time when my family gathers to reflect on our rich heritage, sharing stories that have been passed down through generations. Each February, the air buzzes with a deep sense of pride and unity, as we celebrate the resilience, creativity, and achievements of our ancestors. From cooking traditional dishes that evoke the flavors of our history to recounting tales of struggle and triumph, this month serves as a heartfelt reminder of our collective journey. These moments not only draw us closer together but also instill in us a renewed appreciation for the strength and richness of our cultural background.

My late grandmother was a resilient soul who navigated the tumultuous waters of both segregation and the Civil Rights Movement, often shared her profound experiences with me. I remember vividly sitting cross-legged on the warm, sunlit floor of her living room, surrounded by the familiar scent of her red man chewing tobacco, as she wove her stories like a tapestry of the past. With each word, she transported me to the fervor of marches and rallies, where passionate voices rose in unison, the powerful anthems of freedom resonating through the air and igniting the spirit of those who gathered. She painted vibrant pictures of courageous leaders, whose unwavering resolve inspired countless others to join the struggle for justice. Her voice, rich with the weight of history and emotion, wrapped around me like a comforting blanket, and in those moments, I felt an immense honor to bear witness to her extraordinary journey.

My family’s deep-rooted faith and unwavering involvement in St. Peter Baptist Church’s annual Black History Program have been pivotal in shaping my understanding of Black history. As the emcee strides confidently to the microphone, an anticipatory hush falls over the congregation. The air is thick with reverence and excitement, as familiar faces lean in, eager to absorb the stories and heritage that will soon be shared. Next, the emcee says, “Let us stand and hold hands as the musician leads us in singing the Negro National Anthem.” We clear our throats, preparing to sing with the best harmony we can muster:

“Lift every voice and sing, ‘til earth and heaven ring,

Ring with the harmonies of Liberty.

Let our rejoicing rise,

High as the listening skies,

Let it resound loud as the rolling sea.

Sing a song, full of the faith that the dark past has taught us,

Sing a song, full of the hope that the present has brought us…”

Johnson’s lyrics eloquently express a solemn yet hopeful appeal for the liberty of Black Americans. Set against a backdrop of religious invocation and the promise of freedom, the song was later adopted by the NAACP and prominently used as a rallying cry during the Civil Rights Movement of the 1950s and 1960s.

The program unfolds with a series of powerful presentations, featuring dozens of individuals passionately reciting poems and speeches that illuminate the extraordinary lives and contributions of notable figures from Black history. These heartfelt performances provide a profound opportunity for the audience to engage with and reflect on the rich tapestry of our origins, highlighting the struggles and sacrifices that have paved the way for the freedoms we enjoy today.

We honor iconic leaders such as Rosa Parks and Martin Luther King Jr., whose unwavering commitment to justice and equality has inspired generations. In addition, we shine a light on lesser known yet equally important figures like Ida B. Wells, whose courageous activism against lynching echoes the continuing fight for civil rights.

Within the walls of St. Peter Baptist Church, the atmosphere is transformed into a vibrant tribute to resilience and strength. The space is adorned with thoughtfully displayed posters, inspirational books, and poignant quotes, each carefully chosen to serve as a testament to the enduring legacy of those who have fought for justice. This rich environment encourages attendees to not only remember these courageous individuals but also to contemplate the ongoing journey toward equality and the work that still lies ahead.

Following the heartfelt Black History Program, my mother immerses herself in the warmth of our kitchen, crafting a feast of soul food that has been lovingly passed down through generations. The rich, earthy aroma of collard greens simmers on the stove, mingling with the comforting scent of black-eyed peas, their tender skins bursting with flavor. She carefully stirs the creamy macaroni and cheese, its cheesy goodness bubbling invitingly, while the golden cornbread bakes to a perfect crisp, promising a hint of sweetness with every slice.

As we eagerly gather around the table, the clatter of dishes and the chatter of family rising in excitement, we find ourselves surrounded by a tapestry of history and tradition. Each dish evokes cherished memories and stories—my grandmother’s laughter while tossing in spices, and my great-grandmother’s hands kneading the cornbread dough. Every recipe on our table not only fills our bellies but also nourishes our souls, connecting us to our ancestry and the love that has shaped our family over the years. With every bite, we celebrate not just the food, but the powerful legacy it represents.

As the month progresses, our conversations shift toward the future. My father often challenges us to consider our roles in continuing the legacy of those who fought before us. “What will you contribute to the story of our people?” he asks, his eyes filled with unwavering conviction. This question stays with me long after the month ends, igniting a passion for advocacy and education within me.

Our celebration is an ongoing tradition that honors the life, legacy, and contributions of Black people throughout the year. We host gatherings for family and friends, where we share stories from the past. These gatherings are filled with laughter, music, and songs of triumph. They include spirited debates about our favorite historical figures, reminding us that our culture is not only something to be revered but also a vibrant part of who we are today.

Now, as an adult, I carry these traditions with me. I find immense joy in sharing similar experiences with my children. We dive into projects that explore our heritage and engage with local Black History Month events in our community. It’s essential for me that they understand the significance of this month and the strength that comes from our history. Black History Month is a reminder of the struggles and triumphs of generations past, an opportunity to learn, and a chance to define our future. For my family, it symbolizes resilience, pride, and a commitment to keeping our cultural flame alive—one story, one meal, one gathering at a time.

What would you like more people to know about the importance of celebrating and supporting the Black community in this country?

Celebrating and supporting the Black community is vital for fostering equality, understanding, and unity in our society. By recognizing and honoring the contributions of Black individuals and culture, we enrich our collective identity and history. Supporting the Black community also helps to address systemic inequalities and injustices that persist, creating pathways for economic, educational, and social progress.

Additionally, celebrating diversity strengthens our communities by promoting empathy and collaboration among people of all backgrounds. It encourages dialogue and awareness, which are crucial for dismantling stereotypes and building a more inclusive society. Ultimately, upliftment and celebration create a stronger, more cohesive nation where every individual is valued and empowered.

 

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